“It’s definitely a good building experience to have,” said Steinberg, a senior honors music education major. As one of the UDMB drum majors, Steinberg values the chance to build leadership skills. “As a music education major, I’m on the podium in front of the band before I’m in a classroom in front of students. Everyone in the band is looking to you, and you have to have your game face on. It’s like training in critical thinking and being prepared.”
Alumna Lauren Reynolds, who serves as UD’s director of concert bands and associate professor of music, started as a first-year flute player in UDMB. She remembers Sarver’s encouragement and support spurring her interest in pursuing a professional career.
“Her legacy is to encourage her students to go beyond what anyone could dream,” Reynolds said. “Reach for the moon. Go beyond these walls. She wishes more for her students than she wishes for herself.”
Game day surprises
The final home game of the regular season is a time to recognize athletes and band members in their final year at UD. It marks the culmination of countless hours of rehearsal and preparation. The Nov. 18 game also held a few surprises for Sarver.
During the second quarter, UD Athletics presented her with a framed football jersey to honor her work supporting athletics during the past three decades.
“I knew something was up when I was told not to ‘disappear’ during the second quarter, but receiving the framed jersey caught me by surprise and was a complete shock,” Sarver said.
UDMB traditionally takes the field after the game for the “5th quarter,” a short post-game performance that includes the band playing the “band song” to close out each performance. UDMB’s song is The Beatles' “In My Life.”
During the Nov. 18 performance, UDMB surprised Sarver with a rendition of Frank Sinatra’s “My Way,” which was the band song at her alma mater, University of Massachusetts.
“Hearing ‘My Way’ is visceral for me. It goes right to the core of who I am. I completely fell apart when I heard UDMB play the first chord,” she said.
The road ahead
UD is currently conducting a national search for a new director.
When Sarver made her announcement at band camp, students were surprised and in disbelief. First-year student Roman Norquest was disappointed that Sarver is leaving; however, he knows that the band is bigger than just one person.
“I hope the new director keeps some of our traditions, but if they want to add new things to it, that’s what it’s all about,” Norquest said. “They’re going to have a new perspective and a new take on things.”
“Delaware is poised to become whatever it needs to become at this point. It's big. I hope whoever comes in next maintains what we've created, but takes it to the next place, whatever the next place is,” Sarver said.
Article by Megan M.F. Everhart
Photos by Evan Krape, UD Athletics and Mark Clodfelter
December 14, 2023